The Downside of Porn Addiction

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-Have you ever looked up the dictionary for the word porn? Have you ever felt the urge to look up its definition rather than doing it? Basically, the word never has the word “fun” in any dictionary that you look into. With that said, porn does not bring you any fun at all. Instead, it just provides you with a temporary means of satisfaction. You can think of it as a palliative therapy for some “inner desire,” “hidden fears,” and “inabilities.”

Let’s take each of the three things into a much bigger discussion. The first thing is about inner desires. If your porn provides you with fun for any inner desire, then how come there isn’t any feeling of triumph or pride after watching a porn movie or even masturbating. If ever there is, then why doesn’t it last for days? How come we can’t be proud of it and lift our heads up high and face the world after doing any kind of pornographic act. Some may call it taboo, but have you even thought why it’s a taboo for people not to be able to act accordingly after doing pornographic acts. Compare it to how you could act after getting a promotion at work or even with something as simple as getting through a specific level in your favorite computer game. You can even shout it out to the world!

Let’s hit on the second and third on our list. As for hidden fears and inabilities, have you ever thought of asking your crush to go out with you on date? You may have, but what about others out there who would rather hide in the shadows than speak about what they feel to the person they have that feeling for. The sad part of this is that others would stay locked up in their rooms satisfying their need of having intimate connections with the opposite or even the same gender with the help of pornographic movies or clips. If you are one of these people, start asking yourself if it is really worth the time and energy. Try comparing the effort of having to stand up in front of a girl and telling her that you like her rather than having to look for the perfect time while your parents aren’t home to get a hold of the VCR or DVR player to watch a porn movie after not being able to say “hi.”

The fun of life is taken out if we don’t actually face it by doing the right thing. Diversions will always be diversions until you stand in the front line and take the blow. No pornographic movie beats the fun you get while actually holding your dream girl’s hand while walking along the park.

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