-Pornographic addiction is, in short, an obsession with fantasy and illusion. Addicts are so entangled in their web of lies and fantasy they fail to realize that their sexual needs cannot be met through porn. They need to know the reality that only healthy intimate relationships with their spouse can give them the tangible and physical feeling of pleasure and sexual satisfaction. In their pursuit to gratify their sexual appetite through porn, they end up creating havoc on their lives and relationships and face financial crisis by spending thousands of dollars on pornographic materials.
Fortunately, if you are one of the addicts, you do not have to be ensnared in your web of addiction for the rest of your life. If you want, there really is a way out. The first step involves a firm commitment towards success. There is no force that can make you change or create changes for you. You have to take the first step on your own. Your past may be sullied, but your future is still a clean slate where you make positive things happen. You can keep it unblemished if you are really committed. Try to identify moments of weakness and find ways to divert your thoughts and attention from your addiction when the wave of temptation rises. You will need to make some rough sacrifices like getting a monitoring software for you internet or getting rid of the internet altogether.
A strong desire to change is the power you need to surpass anything and gain victory over your obsession with porn.